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Your Child is Not Broken: Parent Your Neurodivergent Child Without Losing Your Marbles Kindle Edition

4.6 out of 5 stars 897 ratings

An updated edition of the Sunday Times bestseller.

Your Child Is Not Broken is THE book for parents who need permission to do things differently.

An unapologetic, deeply moving manual for parents of neurodivergent children from Heidi Mavir, a late-identified, neurodivergent adult and parent to an autistic/ADHD teenager.

This updated edition includes information on Pathological Demand Avoidance, Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, an interview with Heidi's son Theo and more.

Follow Heidi's irreverent and brutally honest story of her fight to be seen, heard and supported, while swimming against a tide of parent blame, ableist stereotypes and the weight of other people’s opinions.

Your Child Is Not Broken is a call to arms for parents and carers of autistic, ADHD, or otherwise neurodivergent children. It is the book that no one has dared to write but every parent needs to read. Heidi’s hilarious anecdotes and heartbreaking storytelling offer validation, comfort, reassurance and wisdom to parents who need it the most.


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Heidi Mavir is a late-identified, neurodivergent adult. She is a public speaker, advocate, author of Your Child Is Not Broken, podcaster, and parent to an autistic/ADHD teenager. A trained Mental Health First Aider and CPD Accredited Trauma-Informed Professional, Heidi uses her knowledge, learning, and experience to help other parents and carers to become powerful advocates for their neurodivergent kids. She has built an online community of over 6000 families, supported by parent professionals and SEN advocates, who want to improve opportunities for autistic learners. Heidi has been featured in The Sunday Times, The Guardian , and BBC National News. In 2019 she founded EOTAS MATTERS to support families like hers whose children and young people need education outside a school setting.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0C1C6DMHM
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Bluebird (May 11, 2023)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ May 11, 2023
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.3 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 281 pages
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This book begins with tears and ends with tears. Not the sad pitiful tears- but the large “lump in your throat” inducing kind of tears. I didn’t know anyone else had such a similar experience to me, I didn’t know I was not so incredibly alone. The pages of this book are healing, just simply by the amount of validation that came through the words on the pages. I felt, at many times that I too could have written this book with the amount of similar circumstances the author described. I learned a lot but it really opened my eyes to the fact that I can help make this world more palatable for my son, and myself as his single mama just by simply accepting him as he is and loving him in the best ways I know how especially letting him be HIMSELF.What this book did not do is give some sort of instructions or road map on “how to improve things”. It’s more a reminder to breathe and that you aren’t alone in this very lonely journey of parenting a adhd/asd child. Very much not a “how-to” book so if you’re looking for that look elsewhere. This book is a short read, I honestly wish it were longer. I’m inspired to try some more social online groups and to love on my son and be his advocate in the best way I can figure out how.I do have one thing- especially at first that was super off putting about this book and that was the font that was chosen. I about lost my mind when I opened the book to see a silly font- but as I started in on the preface I completely forgot about the authors font choice and decided in the end it didn’t really matter what font choice was chosen. I think that says a lot about how powerful the book is.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2023
    This book begins with tears and ends with tears. Not the sad pitiful tears- but the large “lump in your throat” inducing kind of tears. I didn’t know anyone else had such a similar experience to me, I didn’t know I was not so incredibly alone. The pages of this book are healing, just simply by the amount of validation that came through the words on the pages. I felt, at many times that I too could have written this book with the amount of similar circumstances the author described. I learned a lot but it really opened my eyes to the fact that I can help make this world more palatable for my son, and myself as his single mama just by simply accepting him as he is and loving him in the best ways I know how especially letting him be HIMSELF.

    What this book did not do is give some sort of instructions or road map on “how to improve things”. It’s more a reminder to breathe and that you aren’t alone in this very lonely journey of parenting a adhd/asd child. Very much not a “how-to” book so if you’re looking for that look elsewhere. This book is a short read, I honestly wish it were longer. I’m inspired to try some more social online groups and to love on my son and be his advocate in the best way I can figure out how.

    I do have one thing- especially at first that was super off putting about this book and that was the font that was chosen. I about lost my mind when I opened the book to see a silly font- but as I started in on the preface I completely forgot about the authors font choice and decided in the end it didn’t really matter what font choice was chosen. I think that says a lot about how powerful the book is.
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    Validating af

    Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2023
    This book begins with tears and ends with tears. Not the sad pitiful tears- but the large “lump in your throat” inducing kind of tears. I didn’t know anyone else had such a similar experience to me, I didn’t know I was not so incredibly alone. The pages of this book are healing, just simply by the amount of validation that came through the words on the pages. I felt, at many times that I too could have written this book with the amount of similar circumstances the author described. I learned a lot but it really opened my eyes to the fact that I can help make this world more palatable for my son, and myself as his single mama just by simply accepting him as he is and loving him in the best ways I know how especially letting him be HIMSELF.

    What this book did not do is give some sort of instructions or road map on “how to improve things”. It’s more a reminder to breathe and that you aren’t alone in this very lonely journey of parenting a adhd/asd child. Very much not a “how-to” book so if you’re looking for that look elsewhere. This book is a short read, I honestly wish it were longer. I’m inspired to try some more social online groups and to love on my son and be his advocate in the best way I can figure out how.

    I do have one thing- especially at first that was super off putting about this book and that was the font that was chosen. I about lost my mind when I opened the book to see a silly font- but as I started in on the preface I completely forgot about the authors font choice and decided in the end it didn’t really matter what font choice was chosen. I think that says a lot about how powerful the book is.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 20, 2023
    I read this book in under an hour, and it was as if I was finally having the conversation with a great mom friend that I'd been needing for years. It brought a lot of solace & validation to the overwhelming moments that come with parenting kids with these unique needs. Thanks for the great book!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 9, 2024
    Heidi Mavir is brilliant! If you are the parent of a neurodiverse child, or are neurodiverse yourself, this is a must read. Her words immediately resonated with me, and she writes with engaging honesty and humor.
  • Reviewed in the United States on March 19, 2023
    If I had this book some years ago it would have saved me and my family much pain. We are long into our autism learning journey so I didn’t learn much new info but IT WAS ABSOLUTELY VALIDATING and honestly, that’s still what I need most days anyway. Quick read. UK school experience but it tracks with the US experience just fine.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 14, 2023
    This book was so refreshing loved the point of view and was so easy to read (listen to!)
  • Reviewed in the United States on May 29, 2024
    I purchased this book because of all of the glowing reviews, which admittedly I clearly did not read enough of. This is a story of one family’s struggle for accommodations in school. There are no great details about it either, rather her son was having trouble, the professionals were not helpful, and sometimes mean. And then her struggle with neurodivergence. While
    I can empathize and certainly see how writing this book helped the author, it was not what I was looking for, or indeed what I thought it would be. She is very funny and relatable however.
    3 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 10, 2024
    I recommend this book if you want to listen to someone's personal experience but this is not educational. It is a personal perspective about a person's feelings of having autism along with her son which can be appreciated. Also be prepared to read curse words throughout the book which I found challenging. I had to stop reading 3/4 way through.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2023
    This is an honest account of one parents difficulties navigating society with a neurodivergent family. It is comforting to hear a familiar story and does help one feel like they are not alone. It is not a useful book to learn more about neurodiversity, there are no helpful strategies or advice except to be strong, challenge others and try to stay sane, which is self evident.
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  • Carlos
    1.0 out of 5 stars Okay read but not worth the price.
    Reviewed in Spain on February 28, 2025
    A catchy title and a confortable read but for this price I expected way more.
  • Amazon Kunde
    5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely brilliant
    Reviewed in Germany on May 1, 2023
    Must read for anyone who has neueodivergent children or is working with them (such as teachers and other professionals). Love this book!
  • JS09
    5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read
    Reviewed in Canada on September 24, 2023
    Wow!!! By far one of the best books about autism to date!

    Written by a parent of an autistic young person for parents, Your Child is Not Broken is a compassionate and neuro affirming gem that will stand the test of time for many years to come.

    An honestly written, often funny guide that no parent should be without, this book gives the whys and hows and helps parents feel seen and less alone.

    Topics like school refusal, PDA, parent blame, ableism, and strategies to advocate for your child are all highlighted.

    Written in plain, accessible format, here is a book that can be read by anyone whether they are a parent, professional, or neurodivergent person looking for a book that 'gets them'.

    5 🌟 and then some! Heidi Mavir is one to watch.

    -Jen Elcheson Smits, contributing writer, Spectrum Women: Walking to the Beat of Autism
  • Sofia
    5.0 out of 5 stars I can breathe again
    Reviewed in Mexico on August 8, 2024
    It is not a easy road but this book gets you more than a few steps ahead.
    Thank you! HEIDI
  • Melanie Sekules
    5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely essential reading for any parent of an SEN child
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 22, 2023
    The short review-
    I highly recommend and gently insist that any parent of a SEN child read this. It's both validating and empowering and will help you.
    To SEN professionals, I recommend you also read this and share with everyone you work with.

    The long, waffly review-
    I'm only two thirds through and had to force myself to put it down and actually go to sleep last night. My only negative is that this book doesn't arrive with Heidi herself and an endless supply of coffee and biscuits! Reading this really feels like you are sitting down with a friend and talking about things in a relaxed, light and honest way, which is so different from the cold, clinical and overly complicated bumpf that gets handed to you and scrambles your tired brain within seconds. Heidi simply shines a light on how her child and so many others are failed and addresses such important points that are invaluable. It's easy as a parent, especially a neurodivergent parent, to feel traumatised, gaslit and manipulated by the system when trying to get support and recognition for your child and this book reassures you that you feel that way because the system does all of those things either intentionally or unintentionally or a combination of both. Heidi empowers readers and parents to advocate for their children and themselves instead.

    Heidi's experience mirrors my own so closely and to see it reflected like this made me feel like I am not alone and that I am capable of standing my ground and standing up for my son and my four other neurodivergent children. I shouldn't have to be teaching educational and health professionals about neurodivergence and yet, I find I have to.

    The statistics shared in the beginning of the book are both infuriating and heartbreaking. Heidi shines a light throughout this book on how this is a huge and very hushed up national failing of SEN children and their familes. I add my voice to hers in calling that out and pointing my finger back at the professionals and the systems in place who we as parents, turn to for support and who fail us time and time again.

    Our children are not broken. The education system, the healthcare system, the SEND system is broken.

    Heidi, THANK YOU!

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